She blew me off for her friends should I txt her or no?

The other night we had plans to go out and drink for a party. and the night before that me and her went out to grab something to eat., the date went good, but the next night she totally blew me off for the planned party.. Even tho I did text her llate like 10". She said she was out already with friends.. I played it cool and said you can do wutever and ended it on a good note. Should I txt her or wait for her to text me, I don't want to seem like an easy pushover, but I do like her, but I have a feeling she likes guys that treat her like ****.. I can't be that guy.